When 'hermes update' stashes local changes and the restore hits
conflicts, the previous behavior silently ran 'git reset --hard HEAD'
to clean up. This could surprise users who didn't realize their
working tree was being nuked.
Now the conflict handler:
- Lists the specific conflicted files
- Reassures the user their stash is preserved
- Asks before resetting (interactive mode)
- Auto-resets in non-interactive mode (prompt_user=False)
- If declined, leaves the working tree as-is with guidance