An agent session killed the systemd-managed gateway (PID 1605) and restarted
it with '&disown', taking it outside systemd's Restart= management. When the
orphaned process later received SIGTERM, nothing restarted it.
Add dangerous command patterns to detect:
- 'gateway run' with & (background), disown, nohup, or setsid
- These should use 'systemctl --user restart hermes-gateway' instead
Also applied directly to main repo and fixed the systemd service:
- Changed Restart=on-failure to Restart=always (clean SIGTERM = exit 0 = not
a 'failure', so on-failure never triggered)
- RestartSec=10 for reasonable restart delay
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