start_gateway() now checks for an existing running instance via PID file
before starting. If another gateway is already running under the same
HERMES_HOME, it refuses to start with a clear error message directing the
user to 'hermes gateway restart' or 'hermes gateway stop'.
Also fixes gateway/status.py to respect the HERMES_HOME env var instead of
hardcoding ~/.hermes. This scopes the PID file per HERMES_HOME directory,
which lays the groundwork for future multi-profile support where distinct
HERMES_HOME directories can run concurrent gateway instances independently.